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How Can Churches Build Trust when Issues Threaten to Divide?

From Distrust to Trust is a timely resource that recognizes the church’s need for authenticity and faith to build trust when issues threaten to divide us. Sharing the stories of three congregational churches that have dealt with the reality of polarizing controversial issues—in this case, same-sex marriage—authors Matthew Sturtevant and Timothy Bonner reflect on the role of polity, process, and preaching in helping churches to listen, trust, and grow.

The future of your vocational ministry and the vitality of your parish may depend on reading this one crucial book.Denominational leaders, bishops, chaplains, and faith adjudicators can find guidance for shepherding ministers who depend on their wisdom. Bold congregations can assess their context, build retreats, train leadership, and hold study groups around this text. I enthusiastically recommend it!

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A Peek Inside From Distrust to Trust

Chapter Summaries from the Book

1

Congregations and Controversy

Controversy in congregations is not new. However, the acrimony of our current cultural context provides special challenges and unique opportunities.

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2

Why Trust: Polity and the Adaptive Church

Our suggestion is that a church built on trust of God and other is the key to navigating our current context. Together we consider theological pathways that build trust in adaptive congregations.

3

Metaphors for an Elastic Church

The church which moves from distrust to trust will embrace an elasticized ecclesiology, with creativity and imagination. Thus, we explore various metaphors designed to inspire trust and stretch one’s thinking about what churches can become.

4

Preaching: Evoking Trust Through Dialogue

A creative relationship between congregation and preacher is key to navigating complex controversies, so we reflect upon strategies for building a sermon and simultaneously building trust.

5

Concepts for Congregational Help: Trust-Building Pathways

Here we present a cyclical model for building trust in a congregation. Concepts such as hospitality, intersectionality, empathy, and alterity are explored.

6

Examples of Congregations’ Processes: Three Pathways to Trust

This is not a one-size-fits-all endeavor! We explore three different congregational stories, demonstrating different paths to trust and discernment. Will your congregation choose consensus, an unambiguous policy, or ongoing process?

7

Stopping to Ask Directions When You Feel Lost: Some Step-by-Step Communication Guidelines

Healthy trust-building communication is crucial to the work of navigating controversy in the church. Here are a few practical steps that might guide congregations through the wilderness.

8

Other Voices: Companions on the Journey

We wanted to put our money where our mouths were regarding an elasticized ecclesiology, so we invited several other voices to share their experiences and stories of controversy and conversations in their own faith communities.

9

The Path Ahead

Our mothers used to pin a reminder on our jackets on the way out the door, and so we leave you with a few final reminders about the path of trust, inviting hope and gratitude for the journey.

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About the Book

Trust and trust-building are an essential part of a vibrant, growing faith community. We explore the journeys of congregations that have each approached the reality of the Supreme Court decision legalizing same-sex marriages. Our goal is to provide a conversation partner for congregations as we present an “elasticized ecclesiology” with observations, insights, and suggestions for application in local congregations.

We believe that with connected, interactive preaching and intentional collaborative work, congregations can not only continue but also grow into institutions of social power and justice based on Jesus’ prototype of servant leadership. Future churches will be adaptive and elastic—stretching and engaging to meet the holistic needs of all persons in their community.

From Distrust to Trust: Controversies and Conversations in Faith Communities is a deep dive into how churches navigate politically divisive issues, stretching and growing to include worshipers with diverse experiences and beliefs.

Based on their research into churches discerning whether to perform same-sex marriages, Sturtevant and Bonner identify model practices and pitfalls for churches engaging in potentially controversial decisions. Their work incorporates a variety of perspectives, drawing on the experiences of churches in the Midwest, as well as both coasts.

This book’s tools can help churches embrace trust through disagreements and grow in love. 

From the Authors

Trust and trust-building are an essential part of a vibrant, growing faith community. We explore the journeys of congregations that have each approached the reality of the Supreme Court decision legalizing same-sex marriages. Our goal is to provide a conversation partner for congregations as we present an “elasticized ecclesiology” with observations, insights, and suggestions for application in local congregations.

We believe that with connected, interactive preaching and intentional collaborative work, congregations can not only continue but also grow into institutions of social power and justice based on Jesus’ prototype of servant leadership. Future churches will be adaptive and elastic stretching and engaging to meet the holistic needs of all persons in their community.

You'll find that From Distrust to Trust:

  • provides a broad background and multiple perspectives as it includes data from multiple congregations utilizing both the pastoral and layperson’s perspectives.
  • discusses questions of Polity (who in the church is responsible for this decision and how it is made), Process (how to engage, inform, and empower a congregation to make such a decision) and Preaching (how one may lead from the pulpit in ways that are faithful to scripture and to congregational ownership).
  • includes a chapter of “Other Voices,” which was written by five female and one male participants.

From the Publisher

From Distrust to Trust: Controversies and Conversations in Faith Communities is a deep dive into how churches navigate politically divisive issues, stretching and growing to include worshipers with diverse experiences and beliefs.

Based on their research into churches discerning whether to perform same-sex marriages, Sturtevant and Bonner identify model practices and pitfalls for churches engaging in potentially controversial decisions. Their work incorporates a variety of perspectives, drawing on the experiences of churches in the Midwest, as well as both coasts.

This book’s tools can help churches embrace trust through disagreements and grow in love. 

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Reader Insights

Attentive to the congregations affected by denominational divisions, From Distrust to Trust explores the 21st-century ecclesial crisis centering on congregational responses to cultural shifts. While specific to the legalization of same-sex marriage, they describe a noteworthy process for any situation where a local congregation must regain lost trust. While remaining elastic and adaptive are not easy answers, Sturtevant and Bonner have dived deep into the controversy, boldly suggesting that trust can be regained.
This book is written to help congregations "actively work on finding their own identity, vision, and mission while working to attain and maintain trusting relationships among all participants." In a world torn apart by critical issues and whose tears have crept into congregations, the authors emphasize trust building while tackling controversial issues. Without judging congregations or "elevating any one church above any other," the authors explore how trust can be fostered in congregations. For congregations ready to tackle controversial issues, the author’s provide research, examples, and models to engage in this process.
From Distrust to Trust has come just in time for church leadership, lay and clergy alike, who seek to engage the many complex questions of our day faithfully and courageously. Loaded with spiritual wisdom and informed by other relevant disciplines, it is both a practical and profoundly thoughtful guide. Sturtevant and Bonner's study is a must-read for today's leaders.
The toxic way of handling differences in our national society has found its way into our congregations. The authors provide specific practices for building trust for relationships in faith communities capable of holding differences within "elastic" communities. Their approach isn't ivory tower dreaming but rather worked out in the context of congregations like yours and mine.
From two seasoned and perceptive practitioners, a pastor and a therapist, come wise words on how to build a culture of trust in our congregations. In an increasingly fractious political landscape, churches can cultivate practices that transcend the divides and move toward greater respect for all. Creative and practical, informed by excellent scholarship, this collaborative text offers constructive guidance, which I commend.
[Bonner and Sturtevant] have provided a practical and needed text for leaders and followers to wade into the deep waters of nurturing trust in our relationships with others. …This work invites us to be curious about those who think differently. …Their work in congregations and therapeutic settings brings experience, knowledge, and a pastoral presence to difficult conversations…Readers from a wide range of theological perspectives will find value in their work.
The authors skillfully…tackle relevant, critical issues…facing contemporary pastors and churches. They deliver well-researched…possibilities for building trust in congregational processes to discern Spirit-led paths ahead. I recommend this hopeful, frank, and brutally honest book…It is a must-read for pastors, church staff, and lay leaders who long for a vibrant, open, and caring congregation…as it offers healing, hope, guidance, and paths for reconciliation.
With wisdom born of experience
And with attention to preaching, polity, and process
The authors offer perspective, method, skills, and case studies
On how churches can carry on difficult conversations and arrive at respectful decisions with hopefulness and grace.
What a gift!

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Meet the Authors

Matthew
Sturtevant

Matt has been the senior pastor at FBC since 2009. After growing up in Illinois, going to high school/college/seminary in Kentucky, and working as a hospital chaplain in South Carolina, he and his wife Kimberly have called Kansas home.

He has degrees from a Baptist school (Georgetown College in Kentucky), a Presbyterian school (Louisville Presbyterian Theological Seminary), and a UCC school (Chicago Theological Seminary), and is thankful for God’s diverse and colorful Church. He and First Baptist together have worked to meet food insecurity needs in the area, address affordable housing issues in Lawrence, and care for all of God’s creation.

Matt has served in leadership roles with the Ministers Council of the Central Region helping to support fellow ministers across Kansas, and now serves in a similar way supporting fellow ministers across the nation as President of the ABCUSA Ministers Council.

Matt is a proud husband of a public school educator and father of two, and an avid hiker, trail runner, and lover of the outdoors.  He has been a Cubs fan since before they were good.

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Timothy
Bonner

Tim grew up on a ranch/farm in Kansas. He earned a BS degree in Sociology, an Anthropology minor and a MS degree in Family Life Education/Human Development Consultation at Kansas State University.

Next, he spent ten years in Missouri: a two-year appointment teaching at Northwest Missouri State University, six years of social work in the KC, MO area, and two years at St. Joseph State Mental Hospital.

With the completion of another degree—counseling psychology at UMKC—he returned to Kansas to work in community mental health centers (CMHCs) as a licensed clinical psychotherapist. He recently retired after over 11 years at Valeo Behavioral Health Care in Topeka.

Tim has given many professional presentations on psychotherapy, communication, and parenting. Highlights include “Parenting in the 21st Century” at the Satir World Conference 2010 in Hong Kong, PRC; “Holistic Therapy for Anxiety, Depression, and Co-dependence,” and other continuing education presentations at CMHCs.

After retirement, Tim obtained the Doctor of Ministry degree at Central Seminary in Shawnee, KS. Subsequently, he and Matt Sturtevant combined their dissertations into this book.

Tim is in a blended, mixed family of six adult children that includes an informally adopted daughter from Haiti, plus 13 grandchildren. He enjoys family time, traveling, reading, and writing. See his blog at medium.com and other articles at goodfaithmedia.org.

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